My Journey

I was drained, lonely, and fucking done with life.

I snapped one day and wrote a suicide letter to my husband with all intentions of ending my life right after I KISSED my kids good-bye for school. That was it – I was doing it and there was no fucking turning back.

Oh, yeah, we swear here!

Something just broke and I lost it but I also gained it all back simultaneously… something intuitive came to me; anyone that has experienced trauma has a breaking point and I don’t mean rock bottom, but it’s different – it’s what I call the DONE BEING A VICTIM point.

I had to get out of my own way.

I wanted to make life happen and live a fulfilled, happy human experience. Now, If you’re here on my site and made it this far, you understand where I’m at. You might be at your breaking point right now!

You are ready to make life happen differently… that’s where I was.

I sat on the floor of my living room counting the bricks on my fireplace as my salty tears pooled on the floor. I held a pill bottle and my fate in my hands.

My life, my happiness was 80% my choice and 20% circumstance – WTF was I doing with that 80% I wasn’t doing anything but pushing and trying to look like superwoman and wear my victimhood like a badge of honor.

But no amount of success in any business would change my path if I didn’t take down the barriers that held me back from myself. I had to harness my fear and activate resilience and not just push through.

In our society we’ve internalized the message that if we keep quiet and don’t talk about our pain and sadness we are strong.

I knew different and although this sentiment soothes people’s need to voice how they feel and show emotions, it’s very untrue.

I spent years trapped in a victim mindset. It was a loop of self doubt, frustration, anger, deprivation, envy of the people around me that just got it… I felt cursed and it pissed me off.

What looked like I had it all together from the outside was only my mess zipped up real tight on the inside.

Admittedly, I spent most of my life in counseling while facing tough challenges as a wife, mom, and trauma survivor. It left no room for healing; it was a lot of talking through my early mental, sexual & narcissistic abuse. As an adult I could not break toxic patterns, wildfire emotions accompanied by guilt and depression that manifested into a terrible chronic illness, all the while succumbing to more trauma like losing a baby and watching my child have seizures.

Everything I experienced seemed catastrophic and it rocked my world because my foundation was weak.

Trauma left me on the fucking struggle bus only to use my own survival skills I learned at the school of hard knocks to find my way and navigate through marriage, motherhood, and entrepreneurship.

Every time I took a step forward in my life & business, I seemed to self-sabotage and I had to take 2 steps back. I didn’t understand I was a good mom and wife, I was devoted, and I loved my family and was blessed in so many ways.

I built a successful wedding business and accomplished so much I went on to advocate for women entrepreneurs and launched my own educational brand Elite Workshop–I was hitting my strides in biz and bossing like a mofo!

And yet, somehow I ended up on the floor of my living room having to make a choice to LIVE.

Fast forward two years, now I’m amazing! It’s a whole different story–I still work on myself everyday as a result of my traumatic past and those triggers are still present – but now it doesn’t define me or stop me.

I work with inspiring individuals on their trauma journeys, enabling them to live life beyond their limits and to harness the infinite power of their emotions and self-harming beliefs.

My approach is raw and real because honey, I’m no BS! I work with you to strip down and get into the uncomfortable dirty vulnerable beliefs that have had you chained to your pain. By clinging onto them, you have limited yourself tremendously.

We’ll work through these tough things together.

I’m your ride or die on this journey because I see you, and I know where you are right now. I once was controlled by limiting beliefs and fear along with self worth issues.

I played small in my life, only settling for what I thought I was worth.

I’ve got you. This is a safe space to share and heal.

Andy

What would it feel like to finally face and heal your trauma?

To have a handle on your emotions

To be present in your body, feel sexy and desirable

To say yes to healing without fear and judgement

To release the need to control all of your emotions

To set boundaries and stop being the martyr for everyone

To rid your life of toxic people

To feel better, mind, body and soul

Why Work With Andy

 

I see you and I have been where you are today and because I know first hand that transforming your mindset can have a huge impact on your life—here I am.

Not too long ago I was a girl who felt lost, alone, miss-understood, and unworthy. I’m not gonna lie my trauma Fucked me up and the aftermath has been hard. I wasn’t dealt the winning hand in life – so I felt. I was trapped in my own shit and at low times I was ready to call it quits.

Before I went I began my healing journey- and I say journey because you have to be in this for the end game, not instant gratification. It’s a slow steady ugly hard climb, but it’s worth it.

But how can you change the programming when you don’t know what it is?

We all have blind spots but you need to peel back the layers of your experiences to discover the root cause of your belief that have got your thinking and feeling the way you do today.

It’s time to take your life back!
No one will judge you, you are totally safe!

I experienced judgment, pain, anxiety, and total downright overwhelm and fear! I never thought I would be here in my room writing this for my website to help other trauma survivors.

But I made a choice to stop being the victim in my life, ask for what I need, set boundaries that protected me and my energy, and heal at a cellular level. Because I know I don’t just exist to suffer and go through the motions with a strong lack of belief in myself.

No, fuck that, I’m here for a greater purpose even greater than being a mom which I love. But I’m here for you!

Using a combination of my life & business practical expertise and experience with my growth mindset and fear busting abilities to break down your walls and shift the beliefs you have been telling yourself.
Along with my unique ability to tap into my intuitive gifts to hear the things you need to hear that will offer a new perspective and hope.
I’m relatable and real and I help my clients break through their pain ceilings.

I have created an exclusive 1:1 program, group programs all of which provide life-changing results.

My Business has allowed me to help women and some men transform their lives so they are no longer defined by their past experiences and take control of their own choices so they can create a life worth living that is aligned with their goals and their passions. And break linage pain cycles.

Why Work With Andy

 

I see you and I have been where you are today and because I know first hand that transforming your mindset can have a huge impact on your life—here I am.

Not too long ago I was a girl who felt lost, alone, miss-understood, and unworthy. I’m not gonna lie my trauma Fucked me up and the aftermath has been hard. I wasn’t dealt the winning hand in life – so I felt. I was trapped in my own shit and at low times I was ready to call it quits.

Before I went I began my healing journey- and I say journey because you have to be in this for the end game, not instant gratification. It’s a slow steady ugly hard climb, but it’s worth it.

But how can you change the programming when you don’t know what it is?

We all have blind spots but you need to peel back the layers of your experiences to discover the root cause of your belief that have got your thinking and feeling the way you do today.

It’s time to take your life back!
No one will judge you, you are totally safe!

I experienced judgment, pain, anxiety, and total downright overwhelm and fear! I never thought I would be here in my room writing this for my website to help other trauma survivors.

But I made a choice to stop being the victim in my life, ask for what I need, set boundaries that protected me and my energy, and heal at a cellular level. Because I know I don’t just exist to suffer and go through the motions with a strong lack of belief in myself.

No, fuck that, I’m here for a greater purpose even greater than being a mom which I love. But I’m here for you!

Using a combination of my life & business practical expertise and experience with my growth mindset and fear busting abilities to break down your walls and shift the beliefs you have been telling yourself.
Along with my unique ability to tap into my intuitive gifts to hear the things you need to hear that will offer a new perspective and hope.
I’m relatable and real and I help my clients break through their pain ceilings.

I have created an exclusive 1:1 program, group programs all of which provide life-changing results.

My Business has allowed me to help women and some men transform their lives so they are no longer defined by their past experiences and take control of their own choices so they can create a life worth living that is aligned with their goals and their passions. And break linage pain cycles.

Speaking & Live Events

As an established professional motivational speaker that has spoken at many local events, & universities, I love nothing more than being able to produce live events and get up close & personal with my people and get to connect with them on a personal level. I love nothing more than bringing a group of growth minded people together and all feeding off each others energy, and excitement.

Over the years I have put together a number of workshops that give you the opportunity to see me in action where I tell my authentic story and you get to receive some live coaching, guidance, love, support and of course, dancing!

Beautifully planned.


It was a huge turning point for me in my business and my personal development. As you would expect with anything organized by Andrea, it was beautifully planned and the speakers were fabulous. I met women from all backgrounds and careers, all looking for something personal for themselves and/or their business.  – Helen

My cup is full.


What can I say about Andrea’s professional coaching and the workshop that has not already been said, excellent and inspiring. I chose Andrea Poisson Delucia for personal coaching because we are in the same industry, I was new starting my business and confronted by all the things every entrepreneur faces. The upfront value was that she had 15+ years of experience to draw upon in my field which really gave me the edge I needed to move with confidence. But what transcended the tactical guidance was going further inward and helping me understand some blocks that had been there for years which would ultimately impede my progress. She offers tough love, is flexible and forgiving with my schedule and always checks in even after our coaching contract to ensure I am staying on track. When you go to a workshop, you are in a room with like minded individuals who are eager to support you. Her other incredible speakers truly sparked inspiration, leaving “my cup full.” A++ – K

Got questions? Let’s connect!

The information on this page is not intended to be a substitution for diagnosis, treatment, or informed professional advice. You should not take any action or avoid taking any action without consulting with a qualified mental health professional if needed.

It’s important to remember that Coaching is not Therapy. A Coach cannot diagnose or treat a Mental Illness or Disorder, nor can I prescribe medications. I can however, work with you at your present stage of life and understand how past events and circumstances still affect you today. That type of awareness is key to recovery from trauma, and opens up a whole new world of awareness and healing. It’s also key to helping you move forward in life with your goals and dreams, because taking into account a history of trauma, we can work together in a compassionate and supportive way.