Andy Delucia
Mindset & Trauma Coach
Heal from Trauma and Step Into Your Power
Ascension Academy now open!
Discover who you are underneath the layers of pain and trauma.
Is life overwhelming you?
Stop using grit to get through the day and learn how to be Resilient AF.
HARD TRUTH:
Unhealed traumas are controlling your life.
It’s not your fault that you experienced childhood trauma.
Whatever was done to you is not your fault, you hear me?
But here’s the part that may be hard to hear and triggering for some:
Unhealed traumas are creating problems in your life now!
How? That’s a great question. You may be:
Procrastinating
People pleasing
Self-medicating
Comfort eating
Overspending
Addicted to drugs
Compulsive caregiving
Numbing out
Raging
Overusing alcohol
Self-harming
You may be unaware of how your trauma is affecting you.
I know that addressing trauma can seem almost impossible, but I promise you it’s not…
At some point in your life there’s a good chance you will feel like working through your past is the only way forward, as terrifying and unsettling as it is … but it is the only way!
Everything in you will tell you to run the other way, shut those thoughts off, block it out of your mind-
Drink, procrastinate, shop, fight, eat the chocolate cake …
Sabotage… sabotage… sabotage….
But there will be a tiny voice (it’s the real you, your higher self) telling you that you have to look at it if you want to move past it and stop the sabotaging…
OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT
There are no words that quite embody the feelings that accompany a life filled with pain, abuse, neglect, manipulation, gas lighting, and control. What you have endured is unspeakable.
Healing is a journey and this is not a quick fix but with monthly support you heal and begin to take your healthy lifestyle back.
The thing is - trauma survivors inhale a strong sense of loss and personal defectiveness with no direction as to how to exhale.
Through this academy you will learn how to recognize what is real today, what is an echo of your past and how to manage emotions that are triggered as you navigate your world both now and in the future.
This Academy can help you.
Using a series of coping tools I have designed after years coming through my own trauma and working with trauma survivors as well as those that have helped me heal, you will learn to uncover your truth of who you are without trauma and together we will heal and restore your identity back to its original human design! And, yes, you will learn to heal by your design.
You're probably wondering what Human Design is.
Your human design chart is a blue print that shows the relationship between our physical body and our unique energetic bodies.
Human design shows us that we are not only here to live this physical human experience but a profound life full of joy, abundance, vitality and optimum health.
But sometimes in our physical life we can experience things like trauma and something goes wrong and this effects our immune system and creates disfunction and that stimulates responses in our body that manifest mental and physical illness and erratic emotional feelings.
Your conditioned beliefs and experiences create more trauma and emotion disruption and spiritual pain. And you lose your connection to self.
This is not an excuse not to heal, it’s the main reason why you should heal.
Only addressing the symptoms can create more pain over and over again.
Human design shows us that each and every one of us is here to contribute to the world in a unique way.
However, most of us are taught that there is only one way to be successful and happy. Through conditioning as a result of our experiences and trauma we learn to hide who we are and compromise our own desires. With the integration of human design in the academy you will learn to be aware of the cycles of pain and heal at a cellular level rather than try to manage your pain at a surface level.
In the Healing by Design part of the academy you will discover a systematic approach to understanding your energy and the energetic forces that have influenced your life choices.
We will look at your type “Hi I’m a Generator“ and how to consciously make new choices that bring you closer to who you truly are, restoring your energy and easing pain in all areas of your life.
Each month I will introduce a new topic which we will explore together. We will look at how your emotions and behaviors show up over and over again from the past and how they are impacting you today. I will host a private group video session, including hot seat coaching and healing and a survivors guide for life.
A big mindset shift.
Working with Andrea has helped so much. She has helped me notice things that I never realized were coping addictions. When I thought about addiction, I thought drugs and alcohol, but for me it was overspending on all things. Coaching with Andrea helped me realize that I was coping with past trauma by overspending on things that I necessarily couldn’t afford like household remodels, vacations, and extra clothes for the kids. With her coaching support I have been able to get back on track and pay my bills.
Using her money tools she gave me in coaching, I was able to pay extra on my responsibilities. This was a huge thing for me to gain control over my spending and the way I cope.
Another thing Andrea helped me with was setting stronger boundaries around expectations as a mother, wife, and business owner. This helped me become less overwhelmed and irritated.
I’m so thankful I took the leap and coached with Andrea the last 6 months. She is very relatable and real. I have worked with different business coaches before, but I found working with Andrea who is a mom, wife, and entrepreneur herself really got me and could help me. Andrea taught me that there is no such thing as balancing it all, that if I’m saying yes to some things, then I’m saying no to others. This was a big mindset shift me.
I also gained more awareness around my past trauma and the effect it’s had on my life and I have always been high achiever and Andrea helped me see that I’m worthy without the material validation.
- D
WHAT YOU EXPERIENCE IN ASCENSION ACADEMY
COACHING
Group coaching for nine months, your group content, survivors guide, sessions and coaching calls (1 coaching call and 1 energy call for clearing, grounding and resetting each month PLUS an accountability and celebration group call every three months)
STRATEGY
Including a building wealth masterclass. We will support you by offering different life and business after trauma wealth building strategies.
CONNECTION
A Voxer messenger group chat with ALL the other members for sisterhood, support and connecting and the collective energy that will set this group on fire!
ACCESS
Access to a private FB group as well as all currently running programs, for example, Resilient AF, Mama Trauma and Sovereignty is the Best Revenge and bonus coaching ($11000 value!!), exclusive trainings and PDF resources
Through Ascension Academy, you will learn how to recognize what is real today, what is an echo of your past and how to manage emotions that are triggered as you navigate your world both now and in the future.
How would it feel…
To have access to a group that will help you heal and help you transcend your trauma?
To come out of isolation and join a beautiful thriving community of women who understand what it is to live as a survivor of trauma?
To be guided month-by-month to uncover and unpack the deep false messages that have been running your life?
To connect with your inner child and inner defender of the secret parts that hold your truest potential?
To empower and transform yourself and take your life back into your own hands?
There is no way you carry everything by yourself…
You have been carrying your trauma around with you, but as you know you are finding that you are required to carry a lot of other stuff including people’s baggage. I want you to drop the weight of the world off your shoulders because something’s got to give!
Perhaps you start right here…
You are tired of the heavy burden
You want to be free
Some you want to keep
But some of it doesn’t belong to you…
Let’s unpack the burdens together and help you determine what to keep and what to throw away.
I’m here dedicating my life to helping people just like you.
I want you to discover who you are underneath the layers of pain and trauma.
I acknowledge the journey to healing is not a straight path. There are many rocky roads and I don’t mean the ice cream…
There is twists and turns and ebbs and flows…
You will experience many emotions, have to unravel layers, and you may be blinded by your truth…
But you will heal in your own unique way. You may need different tools at different times that’s why in the academy you will be given insights to every bump in the road you hit on your healing journey. I will be there to offer you new levels of awareness, support, understanding.
This academy will be like having your bestie or faithful friend alongside you on your healing journey.
Here’s what you also get:
Articles that illustrate how the monthly topic can impact daily life
Resources to explore how this might be showing up in your life
Action steps to take your healing forward
Physical, mental and emotional healing techniques
An invitation to my secret Facebook group for support and interaction
Your Investment:
Limited Time BONUS Option:
I learned that I am worthy and deserving.
Andrea is an agent of change; a vessel for growth for those who want to transcend where they’re stuck.
In my time spent with Andrea, we developed a partnership, a sisterhood, and profound changes that altered the circumstances of toxic residue and affliction in my life. I learned, through Andrea’s guidance, to give myself permission to take up space in the world. I learned, through deep healing work, that I must take up space in the world and through this, I learned that I am worthy and deserving of doing so. I yearn to continue fulfilling my life’s purpose.
It is without reservation that I applaud the service of Andrea Delucia. My time invested in her help has resulted in the betterment of my quality of life, with the release of obligations to answer to those most toxic to us- the narcissist(s). Most of all, I have learned from Andrea to bounce back, and with great stamina and enthusiasm, when those in positions of power, wealth, or familial ties take action to demonstrate that I am undeserving.
An invaluable resource to make a living, and make a life.
In gratitude,
Danielle
The second program I offer is
RESILIENT AF
In the spirit of living in my gifts, which is to help you uncover your trauma and heal from linage cycles of pain, it’s become my mission to offer you the chance to become more aware of how your trauma experiences have affected your life.
We’re not here on this earth to survive. It’s time to thrive, so I want to teach you how to activate your resilience and achieve all that you want to feeling good and coping in a healthy way.
This group is a safe container to begin to explore your trauma – this is so important because trauma often divides people, especially in families & relationships , leading to fragmentation and an “every woman for herself” mentality. It is important to recognize that working on recovery alone may not be efficient, but working with others can be informal, supportive, loving, encouraging, & healing.
This is an EPIC deal and opportunity to work with me!
A life changing opportunity to be nurtured, guided, and witnessed. You will be more equipped to handle your pain and gain the resilience to get through any situation your going through now!
It’s 4 weeks – 1 live resilient training a week – learning how to tap deeper into awareness and cope with your daily struggles.
Having a supportive group is important during periods of forward motion as well as during challenging periods, together we will heal!
THE 4 PILLARS OF RESILIENT AF
Emotions 101
How to not lose your shit when life happens aka healthy ways to deal when shit hits the fan. Learn how to manage anger, how to deal with intense sadness, how to handle sudden anxiety and where to look for answers when intense emotions rear their heads.
Relationships 101
The ultimate guide to giving up people pleasing, detoxing your life from shitty people and learning how to drop the codependency for healthy & mutually beneficial bonds with the right people. Learn how to navigate the ebbs and flows of romantic relationships without turning into the “crazy lady who throws things” so both you and your partner feel fulfilled, loved and supported.
Self Love 101
How to embrace the good, the bad and the ugly that make you who you are so you can learn to fully accept and love yourself again. Discover how to trust yourself, your intuition and your judgment to build unrattled self confidence that puts you back in the driver’s seat of your life.
Coping Skills 101
Trauma never really goes away; we just learn how to cope and adapt when faced with struggles and challenges. Are you coping in a healthy way, or are you numbing out on Netflix or your shopping addiction? We’ll learn how to healthy cope with your day-to-day stress so that you are actually addressing your core beliefs, shifting them, and transforming your behaviors, actions, and ultimately your life.
Through Resilient AF, you will learn how to stop burning yourself out on grit and develop the resilience you need to tackle any challenge.
Are you ready to thrive?
My Journey
I was drained, lonely, and fucking done with life.
I snapped one day and wrote a suicide letter to my husband with all intentions of ending my life right after I KISSED my kids good-bye for school. That was it – I was doing it and there was no fucking turning back.
Oh, yeah, we swear here!
Something just broke and I lost it but I also gained it all back simultaneously… something intuitive came to me; anyone that has experienced trauma has a breaking point and I don’t mean rock bottom, but it’s different – it’s what I call the DONE BEING A VICTIM point.
I had to get out of my own way.
I wanted to make life happen and live a fulfilled, happy human experience. Now, If you’re here on my site and made it this far, you understand where I’m at. You might be at your breaking point right now!
You are ready to make life happen differently… that’s where I was.
I sat on the floor of my living room counting the bricks on my fireplace as my salty tears pooled on the floor. I held a pill bottle and my fate in my hands.
My life, my happiness was 80% my choice and 20% circumstance – WTF was I doing with that 80% I wasn’t doing anything but pushing and trying to look like superwoman and wear my victimhood like a badge of honor.
But no amount of success in any business would change my path if I didn’t take down the barriers that held me back from myself. I had to harness my fear and activate resilience and not just push through.
In our society we’ve internalized the message that if we keep quiet and don’t talk about our pain and sadness we are strong.
I knew different and although this sentiment soothes people’s need to voice how they feel and show emotions, it’s very untrue.
I spent years trapped in a victim mindset. It was a loop of self doubt, frustration, anger, deprivation, envy of the people around me that just got it… I felt cursed and it pissed me off.
What looked like I had it all together from the outside was only my mess zipped up real tight on the inside.
Admittedly, I spent most of my life in counseling while facing tough challenges as a wife, mom, and trauma survivor. It left no room for healing; it was a lot of talking through my early mental, sexual & narcissistic abuse. As an adult I could not break toxic patterns, wildfire emotions accompanied by guilt and depression that manifested into a terrible chronic illness, all the while succumbing to more trauma like losing a baby and watching my child have seizures.
Everything I experienced seemed catastrophic and it rocked my world because my foundation was weak.
Trauma left me on the fucking struggle bus only to use my own survival skills I learned at the school of hard knocks to find my way and navigate through marriage, motherhood, and entrepreneurship.
Every time I took a step forward in my life & business, I seemed to self-sabotage and I had to take 2 steps back. I didn’t understand I was a good mom and wife, I was devoted, and I loved my family and was blessed in so many ways.
I built a successful wedding business and accomplished so much I went on to advocate for women entrepreneurs and launched my own educational brand Elite Workshop–I was hitting my strides in biz and bossing like a mofo!
And yet, somehow I ended up on the floor of my living room having to make a choice to LIVE.
Fast forward two years, now I’m amazing! It’s a whole different story–I still work on myself everyday as a result of my traumatic past and those triggers are still present – but now it doesn’t define me or stop me.
I work with inspiring individuals on their trauma journeys, enabling them to live life beyond their limits and to harness the infinite power of their emotions and self-harming beliefs.
My approach is raw and real because honey, I’m no BS! I work with you to strip down and get into the uncomfortable dirty vulnerable beliefs that have had you chained to your pain. By clinging onto them, you have limited yourself tremendously.
We’ll work through these tough things together.
I’m your ride or die on this journey because I see you, and I know where you are right now. I once was controlled by limiting beliefs and fear along with self worth issues.
I played small in my life, only settling for what I thought I was worth.
I’ve got you. This is a safe space to share and heal.
Andy
What would it feel like to finally face and heal your trauma?
To have a handle on your emotions
To be present in your body, feel sexy and desirable
To say yes to healing without fear and judgement
To release the need to control all of your emotions
To set boundaries and stop being the martyr for everyone
To rid your life of toxic people
To feel better, mind, body and soul
Transcending Trauma: Becoming Resilient AF
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Transcending Trauma: Becoming Resilient AF
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Why Work With Andy
I see you, girly I have been where you are today and because I know first hand that transforming your mindset can have a huge impact on your life—here I am.
Not too long ago I was a girl who felt lost, alone, miss-understood, and unworthy. I’m not gonna lie my trauma Fucked me up and the aftermath has been hard. I wasn’t dealt the winning hand in life – so I felt. I was trapped in my own shit and at low times I was ready to call it quits.
Before I went I began my healing journey- and I say journey because you have to be in this for the end game, not instant gratification. It’s a slow steady ugly hard climb, but it’s worth it.
But how can you change the programming when you don’t know what it is?
We all have blind spots but you need to peel back the layers of your experiences to discover the root cause of your belief that have got your thinking and feeling the way you do today.
It’s time to take your life back!
No one will judge you, you are totally safe!
I experienced judgment, pain, anxiety, and total downright overwhelm and fear! I never thought I would be here in my room writing this for my website to help other trauma survivors.
But I made a choice to stop being the victim in my life, ask for what I need, set boundaries that protected me and my energy, and heal at a cellular level. Because I know I don’t just exist to suffer and go through the motions with a strong lack of belief in myself.
No, fuck that, I’m here for a greater purpose even greater than being a mom which I love. But I’m here for you!
Using a combination of my life & business practical expertise and experience with my growth mindset and fear busting abilities to break down your walls and shift the beliefs you have been telling yourself.
Along with my unique ability to tap into my intuitive gifts to hear the things you need to hear that will offer a new perspective and hope.
I’m relatable and real and I help my clients break through their pain ceilings.
I have created an exclusive 1:1 program, group programs all of which provide life-changing results.
My Business has allowed me to help women and some men transform their lives so they are no longer defined by their past experiences and take control of their own choices so they can create a life worth living that is aligned with their goals and their passions. And break linage pain cycles.
Coaching is about finding out where you are right now, and discovering where you want to go. Interested in seeing if we would be a good fit? Please fill out the form below.
Why Work With Andy
I see you, girly I have been where you are today and because I know first hand that transforming your mindset can have a huge impact on your life—here I am.
Not too long ago I was a girl who felt lost, alone, miss-understood, and unworthy. I’m not gonna lie my trauma Fucked me up and the aftermath has been hard. I wasn’t dealt the winning hand in life – so I felt. I was trapped in my own shit and at low times I was ready to call it quits.
Before I went I began my healing journey- and I say journey because you have to be in this for the end game, not instant gratification. It’s a slow steady ugly hard climb, but it’s worth it.
But how can you change the programming when you don’t know what it is?
We all have blind spots but you need to peel back the layers of your experiences to discover the root cause of your belief that have got your thinking and feeling the way you do today.
It’s time to take your life back!
No one will judge you, you are totally safe!
I experienced judgment, pain, anxiety, and total downright overwhelm and fear! I never thought I would be here in my room writing this for my website to help other trauma survivors.
But I made a choice to stop being the victim in my life, ask for what I need, set boundaries that protected me and my energy, and heal at a cellular level. Because I know I don’t just exist to suffer and go through the motions with a strong lack of belief in myself.
No, fuck that, I’m here for a greater purpose even greater than being a mom which I love. But I’m here for you!
Using a combination of my life & business practical expertise and experience with my growth mindset and fear busting abilities to break down your walls and shift the beliefs you have been telling yourself.
Along with my unique ability to tap into my intuitive gifts to hear the things you need to hear that will offer a new perspective and hope.
I’m relatable and real and I help my clients break through their pain ceilings.
I have created an exclusive 1:1 program, group programs all of which provide life-changing results.
My Business has allowed me to help women and some men transform their lives so they are no longer defined by their past experiences and take control of their own choices so they can create a life worth living that is aligned with their goals and their passions. And break linage pain cycles.
Coaching is about finding out where you are right now, and discovering where you want to go. Interested in seeing if we would be a good fit? Please fill out the form below.
Speaking & Live Events
As an established professional motivational speaker that has spoken at many local events, & universities, I love nothing more than being able to produce live events and get up close & personal with my people and get to connect with them on a personal level. I love nothing more than bringing a group of growth minded people together and all feeding off each others energy, and excitement.
Over the years I have put together a number of workshops that give you the opportunity to see me in action where I tell my authentic story and you get to receive some live coaching, guidance, love, support and of course, dancing!
Beautifully planned.
It was a huge turning point for me in my business and my personal development. As you would expect with anything organized by Andrea, it was beautifully planned and the speakers were fabulous. I met women from all backgrounds and careers, all looking for something personal for themselves and/or their business. – Helen
My cup is full.
What can I say about Andrea’s professional coaching and the workshop that has not already been said, excellent and inspiring. I chose Andrea Poisson Delucia for personal coaching because we are in the same industry, I was new starting my business and confronted by all the things every entrepreneur faces. The upfront value was that she had 15+ years of experience to draw upon in my field which really gave me the edge I needed to move with confidence. But what transcended the tactical guidance was going further inward and helping me understand some blocks that had been there for years which would ultimately impede my progress. She offers tough love, is flexible and forgiving with my schedule and always checks in even after our coaching contract to ensure I am staying on track. When you go to a workshop, you are in a room with like minded individuals who are eager to support you. Her other incredible speakers truly sparked inspiration, leaving “my cup full.” A++ – K
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How your Stuck points are keeping you STUCK!
Heal your traumas. End the unhealthy patterns.
Andy is a powerful coach and healer.
Through working with her, I discovered a pattern in my life that kept repeating because of an unresolved childhood trauma. This trauma was running my life and affecting my decisions. Once I was able to see it clearly and understand how it was operating, I was able to make major shifts.
The deep work is ongoing, but SO worth it. On the other side of trauma is FREEDOM and a life you could never have imagined. Thank you, Andy, for being the inspiring wayshower that you are!
Liz Lee
Got questions? Let’s connect!
It’s important to remember that Coaching is not Therapy. A Coach cannot diagnose or treat a Mental Illness or Disorder, nor can I prescribe medications. I can however, work with you at your present stage of life and understand how past events and circumstances still affect you today. That type of awareness is key to recovery from trauma, and opens up a whole new world of awareness and healing. It’s also key to helping you move forward in life with your goals and dreams, because taking into account a history of trauma, we can work together in a compassionate and supportive way.